Learning

So I have been reading a book on the 5 Love Languages of children.  I must say, I am seeing my kids in a different light.  I am seeing my son in a different way and it is answering alot of questions. 

I have learned that his love language is quality time, (which we already knew), and so is mine.  However, his is a very different quality time.  He needs the one on one eye contact type of quality time.  It's going to take time to figure out how to fill his love tank but the light is getting brighter so I think it will become a much easy way of life here soon.

Ashley has the gifts love language.  I am still in the middle of reading this one but so far it fits her to a T.  She loves things!  She loves all the girly stuff but she is very tough at the same time.  So to make her happy, buy her a cookie!  hehe

I am also learning new things about how Brant learns which baffles me.  I can see a mixture of Darren's learning and my learning types.  The hard part is trying to remember that he is a visual learner who wants to know every detail about every little thing!  He is a super smart kids and has a huge heart.  I am hoping I can be the kind of mom he deserves. 

I love my kids very much.  I know God has amazing things planned for them!